The woman, who is 35 years old, chose to tell us her story. It’s not your average “my husband cheated” story. The problem for our heroine is that as soon as she found out her husband was cheating on her, she felt attracted to his mistress. The woman can’t believe she fell so deeply in love with someone while her husband cheated on her with them. She wrote to us and asked if she was wrong and if the things that were happening to her were really happening.

Since she married Robert seven years ago, Sally, 35, had been happy with her marriage. Then she found out that he was cheating on her. “Robert and I have always been a very strong couple,” she wrote. We have an unbreakable bond that’s hard for many couples to achieve. I thought that.”

“About six months ago, I found out my husband was cheating on me,” the woman said. I was shocked and cried a lot because I couldn’t believe it was true. But there was no denying the proof, which came in the form of sexy, honest messages sent by another woman to my husband. Robert did have an affair with his mistress, and it looked like it was getting very serious between them.

Sally said, “I never thought the man I loved the most would pull such a knife out of my back.” I had always been loyal to Robert, and it was hard for me to imagine how a man who had made me so many promises and whom I married because we both loved each other so much could do something so bad to me and break my trust so easily.

Sally was feeling hopeless, so she did something that a lot of people would probably do.

As Sally continues her story, she says, “I have to admit that I did what I think every betrayed spouse does.” I pretty much stalked the woman that Robert was seeing online. I checked out her business LinkedIn profiles, Facebook page, and, of course, Instagram. It looked like she was a great woman.

With her writing, Sally said she was amazed by the personality and accomplishments of her husband’s mistress. Even though this woman stole Sally’s beloved husband from her, she couldn’t make Sally dislike her. She didn’t feel anything but admiration, though.

“This woman graduated at the top of her class,” she said. I learned that she has two master’s degrees and a degree in civil engineering. It didn’t get any worse when I cleaned and found her underwear under our bed. I threw it away and didn’t tell my husband about it.

Sally can’t stop thinking about how she’s like the woman her husband is seeing someone else.

Sally also said, “My husband’s mistress is a strong activist, and she gives great talks at different seminars.” I watched her videos and was amazed at how well she made her point and how the people in her speeches responded—hundreds of them cheered and praised her.

The woman keeps praising the man her husband is seeing by saying, “She travels a lot and speaks six languages perfectly.” I know I sound like a crazy stalker to you. But I can’t help but feel so unsafe right now.”

Sally keeps saying, “I am not these things” when she thinks about the woman who is now her rival. I work as a teacher for a mediocre company that gives trainings online. In fact, this woman is doing everything I wish I had done. But I couldn’t do it because I was a wife and a mom.
It breaks my heart every time I see one of her posts. This woman does something amazing every day. The world is probably being saved right now while she meets new people.

The woman pushed herself even more to get closer to her rival. “I even joined her gym just to try and maybe get closer to her and find out more about her,” she said. I have no idea what I’m doing; all I know is that I’m completely crazy.”

No one knows about it but the woman, even her husband.

She wrote, “Robert keeps acting like he’s not doing anything.” He brought me flowers last week, and they were sunflowers. I asked him if he knew what my favorite flower was because I have never told this man that I like sunflowers. Her favorite flower, I think, is this one. Mine is a yellow rose.

Robert acts as if nothing happened. “I just can’t help but think that he gets to be with her and I don’t,” Sally said. “My husband gets up around 4 am now to go to work.” I just take care of our kids from home. I want to be with her. Is that wrong? What should I do?”

She also says, “I’ve known for almost seven months that they’re having an affair.” I knew Robert, but I didn’t tell him. He doesn’t know that I know. In my heart, I was afraid that if I told him, I would lose touch with this woman as well.
I think I would have been friends with her if she wasn’t my husband’s mistress. Besides that, she looks great and has the body of a top model. I really feel a lot of different things. On the one hand, I’m heartbroken that my husband is cheating on me with a beautiful woman.

“I don’t think I’m as cool as she is,” Sally wrote. I love my husband, and I know I should talk to him about it, but I think I’m starting to like her. I keep thinking about her all the time. I’m really lost. “I know it’s not normal to like the woman your husband is seeing someone else with.”

“I probably wouldn’t stand out in a crowd,” Sally wrote at the end of her letter. On the other hand, I love the woman he’s seeing someone else with more than me. It’s likely that she could do better than my husband.
I’m not sure what to do. I know that getting a divorce would be the normal thing to do. But I didn’t do it for some reason. What do I do?”

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