Sometimes we’re not sure if what we did was right, especially when it comes to family or friends. So, some people on the Internet put their stories online and asked other people what they thought so they could decide what to do. Tell us which side you’re on by reading on:

– I received a large amount of money by mistake from my ex-husband a few days ago. Late at night, I fell asleep. When I woke up, I had a hundred missed calls and texts asking me to return the money. But he had been owing me a lot of money for a long time (I lent it to him when he was broke and out of work after the divorce), so I took that amount out and sent him the rest.
There was a scandal! He said he was going to buy his new girlfriend an engagement ring with the money he had saved. The engagement was now over. Right now, his girlfriend is mad at me on social media, and his parents, who I got along well with, are on his side. We both have four kids, and I didn’t even take out the back child support. Did I do the right thing? © Reddit user rare-temp

– He’s been seeing his girlfriend for three years now. He’s twenty years old. I really like my son, but he has not become a good person. Shame on me. He isn’t very hardworking and doesn’t want to get a job or go to college. Instead, he likes to party and play video games. On the other hand, his girlfriend is the exact opposite.
She works hard in school and wants to become a doctor. She is also a great swimmer and is currently in college. I just think she should get better. She looked very upset when she came to visit a few days ago. She told me she didn’t know what to do and why her son was so lazy and didn’t want to do anything. You should put yourself first and do what you want.
Today, my angry son came downstairs and told me that his girlfriend had broken up with him and said they were having “discussions with your mom.” My son was furious that I got involved and told me I had crossed lines. I told her I didn’t think she should leave him, but she had to figure out what was best for her on her own. My husband is mad that my son won’t talk to me anymore. Am I wrong? This is Minute-Layer-4412 on Reddit.

– This woman I work with has a habit that is really annoying. The only reason she has a dating profile is to get guys to buy her expensive dinners at restaurants she wants to try, and then she ghosts them. She always brags about this, but she’s never really interested in dating. She’ll just act like she is to sell it. It breaks my heart to see people like this, but this woman sees it as a way to try food or drinks she normally couldn’t afford.
It’s okay for my friend Daniel to use dating sites, though. He texted me a few days ago and asked if I knew her. When they matched, they talked about work, which is how he found out that we both worked there. I told him everything about her hotel business and made it clear that he should end things with her right away. The date was still likely to happen, but my friend said he’d ask for separate checks.
Okay, so they went out over the weekend. On Monday, one of my coworkers came into work very upset. It sounds like she splurged by having my friend take her to a fancy steakhouse. She’s mad at me now because I told someone about her little plan, which didn’t work. Other people I work with also told me I shouldn’t have been involved because it wasn’t my business. Not Your Custodian on Reddit

– My partner and I got married without anyone else there four years ago. We had been together for five years before we got married, so it wasn’t really a big deal for us.
Not long ago, my best friend and I were talking about marriage, and I casually brought up the fact that I had been married for years. She was very angry that I had kept this information from her. She felt lied to and asked if we were really friends. Am I wrong? The player2-go and Reddit

– My ex-husband and I have three teenagers together; we got divorced five years ago. We always put our kids first and got along great as co-parents. For three years, my ex-boyfriend has been seeing someone else, and she doesn’t like me.
My ex-girlfriend and I just got engaged, and he called me yesterday to let me know that I have a year to change my last name back to my maiden name because his fiancée doesn’t want everyone to have the same last name when they get married. I told him I didn’t want a different last name from our kids. He told me I wasn’t being fair. Am I? © ThrowRAHappyLiving on Reddit

– My husband and I bought our first home together. We thought it would be fun to host a few get-togethers over the holidays. From my point of view, it was hell. It was awful all the time.
Kids were allowed to run up and down the stairs, scream, and touch things that weren’t theirs. They also made messes and didn’t make the kids clean up after themselves. People who had kids didn’t bring anything fun for them to do, and they got mad at us for not having anything for them. They brought a dog into our house and let it sleep on the couch. After being told to take their shoes off, they walked around the house with them on. They didn’t take out the trash; instead, they left it lying around or balled it up.
My husband was shocked by how his family was acting and didn’t know what to say. When he told his parents about it later, they laughed at us and said, “That’s what hosting is.” My in-laws asked what we have planned for Easter. Because everyone was so rude, my husband said we’re not going to host. His parents are mad at us. Should we decide again? They are still our family. Poplar_Flower_4409 on Reddit

– I got married two weeks ago. The girl my dad’s girlfriend is seeing has a daughter who is almost done with her fashion degree. After she graduates, she wants to work in the wedding dress business.
She offered to design and make my dress when I started making plans for my wedding. We got together a few times to talk about our plans. I realized that our styles were very different during those, but we still came up with a design that we both liked. In the end, the dress didn’t look at all like the design we had agreed on. Everything about it was wrong: the color, the style, and everything else.
It was also about three sizes too big when I tried it on. I told her I wasn’t going to wear the dress over the phone. Even though she made the dress for free, I offered to pay her for it. She said no and hung up. My maid of honor and I went to a bridal store and found a beautiful dress that didn’t need many changes. It seemed just like what I was looking for.
When it came time for my wedding, I wore the dress I bought down the aisle. During the ceremony, the girl looked like she was about to cry, and her mother gave me mean looks the whole time. In the end, they left after less than an hour of the reception. The next day, my dad and his girlfriend called me and said it was rude of me not to wear the dress the girl had worked so hard on. Since I chose not to wear the dress, I’ve been feeling bad about it. Was I wrong? From ThrwayStepSisDress on Reddit

– My neighbor has two sons and I have two daughters. Our kids are the same age. The wife of my neighbor works from home because her husband is often gone on business trips. My neighbor is a teacher, so when the kids are off, she often sends them to play with mine because her kids bother her at home. Our kids used to get along great, but lately my daughters have been venting that the boys are fighting and calling us dull.
Not long ago, my neighbor asked if I could watch her boys for two days while she worked. I’m “off work” because it’s the holidays. When I told her I wouldn’t be watching her kids, she got very angry! She thinks that I should assist her! Her son told my kids I was a bad person. What did I do wrong? From Surfergirl7681 on Reddit

My girlfriend began banging on the locked bathroom door while I was in the shower. It was hard to hear her because the water was running. She did that to get my attention by turning the light on and off. I yelled that I was almost done, but she wouldn’t stop until I opened it.
She was in a hurry and had to go to the bathroom. It was annoying for both of us. She was mad that I didn’t open the door right away. Which of us is right? From Einebeine1 on Reddit

– A bunch of our friends got together for a party, and my husband and I hired a babysitter for our 3-year-old so we could have fun. One of the friends said she was going to bring her 5-year-old daughter with her. I told them it wasn’t right because no one could really chill out in front of a child, especially since their daughter is very active and the parents let her do a lot of things.
What did the friend who was planning everything say to my friend who was having doubts? He told her not to bring her daughter. She threw a fit and said she wasn’t going to come herself. Do I have it wrong? It’s This_Value_4194 on Reddit.

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