There are a lot of things that can go wrong when one partner isn’t ready to move in with the other. It had been a year since she moved in with her boyfriend, but one woman wasn’t ready. He didn’t want to wait, though, so he moved in with a female friend. Our reader now believes that her relationship will end soon.

She sent us a message.

I’ve been seeing my boyfriend for a year now. He asked if we could move in together, but I wasn’t ready yet, so I told him we’d do it later.

I went to his house yesterday and saw him getting ready to leave. His answer when I asked him where he was going was “I’m moving in with my friend.” Then a beautiful, tall blonde walked in. At first, I thought it was one of his male friends.

To be honest, I wasn’t happy with that. But what she said next almost made me gasp. “Who’s that?” she asked him. He had not even told her that I’m his girlfriend!

I wasn’t sure what my boyfriend meant when he said I was his “best friend” and “kind of like a girlfriend.” He didn’t introduce me to her clearly either. He kept getting his things ready. Are they dating in secret?

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