Disputes over money can happen in any relationship, even the closest ones. Bethany can now afford to buy her own home, but she is strongly against the idea of letting her husband co-own it since it was paid for with money from her family. Their decision has made things tense, and the way he reacted has made her feel uneasy. As a result, she has come to us for help.

Letter from Bethany:

We’ve been married for eight years. We were able to rent a house because we couldn’t afford to buy one.

After my beloved dad died not long ago, I sold his old apartment and some of his most valuable things. The money I got from the sale finally let us buy our own house.

As my life partner, my husband says he should also co-own the house with me.

When I said no, he said, “Then you should use your money to pay me back for all the rent I’ve paid over the years.” At least half of it, since you didn’t pay your share while you lived with me.

He also said, “I worked all those years to provide for you while you stayed at home…” You should feel ashamed!

I haven’t worked since we got married because I took care of our son. For years, my husband has been our only source of income and paid the rent.

But that doesn’t mean he should automatically own the house that was bought with MY money and my dad’s money alone.

What do you believe I should do?

Sincerely,
Bethany”

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