Because her mother-in-law was trying to wake her up, this mom had to ask her to leave, which was not easy. There are people who get along well with their mothers-in-law, but this mom couldn’t because of this bad situation.

She told us what had happened.
The truth is that I’m sick of my husband never telling me when he has guests over, and I’m sorry. Our 8-month-old has invited his mom or sister over at least 15 times and never told me. They are three hours apart.

On Saturday, my mother-in-law came over. I had just put our daughter down for a nap about 20 minutes before she arrived. I mean, I just fell asleep when my mother-in-law and husband walked into the bedroom. When I wake up, my husband pushes my shirt back into place and tells me, “Hey, mom’s here to see us.”

I add, “Well, I just got the baby down for a nap, so we aren’t available.” He says in a low voice, “Babe, she came all the way from three hours away to see us.” After she leaves, you can take a nap. I kept having the same conversation with this man about how I felt about having guests over when I wasn’t told ahead of time. This made me very angry, so I told him to leave the room right away.

My mother-in-law starts to pull the blanket off of me and says something like, “Come on, up you go. I didn’t come all the way down here for nothing.” I got angry and told them, “Yes, you came all the way down here for nothing. My daughter and I are not getting out of bed for an unannounced guest.” Leave right away.

While his mom was complaining about things like disrespect, my husband just pulled her out of the room and gave her an embarrassed look.

The front door slammed. I went back to sleep. After an hour and a half, I woke up to find my husband sitting at the kitchen island looking very angry. As soon as he saw me, he lose it. I told him I was sorry for making him look bad and that getting out of bed for 30 minutes to let his mom see me and the baby wouldn’t have been a big deal.

I told him again that I’m not available for guests unless he includes me. What’s going on in my home? I’m sick of not being told what’s going on. Right now he swears over and over that he told me, but I know for sure that he didn’t. He wants to use the “She traveled three hours for nothing” excuse, but I don’t care. I had to go to sleep because I was tired.

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