A 35-year-old woman really wants to keep her kids safe from another woman. She wrote us a letter and told us her story, which sounded like a real plea for help.
The subject the woman brought up is very touchy for everyone involved in the conflict. But the afraid mom wants to know what our readers think about her situation, which involves her kids and her ex-husband’s new wife. She told us what happened in the fight, and now here is her sad story.
Sarah and Mike got a divorce in a very nice way.
Sarah, who is 35 years old, told us her hard and complicated story. The woman sounded very angry, and you could feel her stress in the words of her letter. There are many controversial ideas in Sarah’s mind, and she wants to stay out of trouble as much as possible.
But the mom is scared that her kids’ safety and well-being are in danger, and she can’t ignore the problem any longer. Sarah asked our readers if they agreed with her choices and if they thought she was overreacting to something harmless that was happening in her family.
“My husband and I were married for 13 years before we got a divorce two years ago,” the woman began her letter. Our kids are now 13 and 8 years old. We broke up in a very calm and understanding way, with no scandals, angst, or shifting of blame.
Mike and I are both doing our best to help our kids get over our split. We show them that we love and respect each other even though we are no longer together. We’re great friends with my ex, and things have been great between us so far.
Sarah was glad that Mike got married.
Sarah tells us more about Mike’s wedding: “He got married again last year.” Eva, his new wife, is a pretty girl who loves him a lot. I heard about their relationship as soon as it began, and I was glad that Mike was able to find love. It’s important to note that neither of us has feelings for the other, and neither of us is jealous of the other’s new relationships.
“The main thing that has always worried me about new partners is how our kids will get along with them and talk to them.” Because Mike started a family before I did, I was immediately interested in his new wife as soon as she met our children. I didn’t need to worry, though, because Emma wanted to be friends with them and seemed to be doing everything she could to get along with them in a friendly way.
I didn’t mind that they were friendly with each other; the kids could go to their house and stay there for as long as they wanted. I thought it was cool that they all went on vacation together and had a good time. Everything was fine until I learned something shocking about the new wife of my ex.
Sarah was upset and angry about it.
Sarah wrote, “I stopped by my oldest son’s Facebook page not long ago.” Then I went to Emma’s page and saw that she had been posting pictures of my kids all the time. This was pretty much fine, but now the posts have their full names, pictures of their jerseys that show where we live, and worst of all, she’s been constantly tagging where they are. This is what she’s been writing on her very public Facebook page.
“I was furious when I found out about this horrible behavior online.” It’s been a while since I asked her to stop, and I have. Emma always says it will, but when I open it, I see pictures of my 8-year-old daughter in a swimsuit on her very public page.
Sarah is really upset about everything.
Sarah wrote, “I lost it with her over it.” She told me I was being unreasonable, stupid, and that it wasn’t a big deal, among other things. In fact, this is the only request I’ve ever made. I told her not to share my kids.
Emma has over 6,000 friends, and her profile is not private in any way. The biggest problem is that she doesn’t even sort her friends list. We’re not friends on Facebook because she deleted and blocked me when I asked her to take down the posts with my kids, but now that she unblocked me, I can see everything she’s posted. We’re still not friends on Facebook, but now everyone can see her posts.
The woman is very upset about what’s happening and admitted, “I recently called Emma and told her not to talk to my kids anymore.” Michael was very angry when he learned that I wouldn’t let his wife talk to our kids, but I need to keep my kids safe from Emma’s silly behavior.
What I did may have made me the worst person in the world, but I don’t think it was too much. Mike keeps defending what she did. Am I being too fussy? I wouldn’t mind as much if her page was private or if I knew who her friends were, but it isn’t, and it’s clear she doesn’t care who sees what she posts.
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