When two new families get together, talking about ex-wives and ex-husbands can be very painful. A lot of couples think that “ex is ex, and it’s all in the past,” but sometimes you have to meet your ex and deal with them.

And it could turn into a real problem, like our heroine today. Sofia, who is 35 years old, wrote us a letter. The twist in her story made us jump. Sofia wanted us to print her story and ask our readers to give us honest feedback and help about her scandalous situation.

Sofia and her husband Alex were very happy together.

This is Sofia, 35, who was always ready to give good advice to people who told us their stories. The woman admitted that she always tried to help people who were going through different things in their lives. But she had no idea that one day she would be the one telling people her complicated story online and desperately needing help and advice.

Sofia said, “Hi!” when she opened her letter. Something happened in my family not long ago that kept me up at night, and I want to talk about it because I’m still not sure what to do.
It had been five years since my husband Alex and I were last together and everything was fine. Five months ago, Alex died peacefully in his sleep. It was a terrible loss for me. I wasn’t expecting this because he was a 45-year-old man who loved sports and lived a very healthy life. When this happened, it broke me, and I’m still sad about my loss.

“Alex and I met after he had just gone through a very public and painful divorce from Natalie. Up until Alex’s funeral, I had never seen this woman, but I knew she was a stingy jerk who liked to live off of other people and had never worked in her life. Alex split up with her because he caught her cheating on him, and he hasn’t been able to forgive her since.

Sofia saw a lot of problems with the way her husband was dealing with his ex-wife and their kids.

Alex and Natalie have two sons, Richard and Anthony. Richard is 20 years old and Anthony is 21. There were a few times during our marriage that I got to meet his sons. I wasn’t amazed by how they behaved. It was clear to me that they used their dad as an ATM and only wanted cash and expensive gifts from him.
I didn’t tell my late husband what I thought because I didn’t think I had the right to get in the way of his parenting choices. I could tell he loved his sons, and the fact that he was always so kind to them was his choice, which I tried to honor.

Alexander’s ex-wife Natalie knew a lot about his money, which was good because he got a huge promotion after they split up and started making even more than he did when they were married. She still wanted his money after they got divorced, and she called him a lot to ask for money and use a lot of different tricks to get it. He almost never refused to help her, even though it made him very angry. He cared about her well-being, and I didn’t fight his will.

The worst news came out after the funeral.

Sofia said, “Right after Alex’s funeral, I had to deal with his ex-wife and his sons in a very difficult way.” When Alex was buried, his sons and ex-wife came over and went through everything we had. Their goal was accomplished, even if it was something I owned.
The funeral was planned by his sons, who gave me the bill, which I paid. When we got married, I sold my house and moved into Alex’s. I had just spent a lot of money making improvements to it.

“This investment made the house worth more. Natalie’s bold words that I needed to pack up my things and leave the house right away because she was going to sell it shocked me the most. I asked if they could give me back the money I spent on repairs since they were evicting me and were going to sell the house. All of them said “no.”

Kindness and greedy people were quickly hit by karma.

Sofia wrote, “I was hurting because Alex died, and I didn’t want to start arguing with these people about money and property.” I used all of my savings to buy an apartment, and then I moved out. Then, though, something that made Alex’s ex very angry happened.
When they tried to sell the house, they couldn’t because my husband had put my name on it. They were angry, and they set up a meeting with me right away. Three of them showed up to that meeting and asked me right away if I would share the sale of the house with them. I confidently told them no without even a second of thought, just like they did when I asked for at least some money back.

“I’m no longer going to sell the house because I now own it.” But deep down, I’m not happy with the choice I made. I feel bad about being so strict with my husband’s sons, and I have a lot of doubts about the choice I made. What should I do?”

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