It hurts even more when your boyfriend cheats on you with your best friend. They call you and ask you to come to their wedding just when you think you’re over it. Yes, that’s what one girl went through. She told her story online to get some advice on what to do next.
He slept with my best friend instead of me.
Because he liked my best friend Ana, my boyfriend broke up with me. We spent a lot of time together, and they told me they liked each other. They told me that Josh had been seeing someone else. They made me look stupid. They lied to me and told me everything was fine when it wasn’t.
I would have tried to understand and help them if they had told the truth at that time, but they chose to lie. I cut them both off. I worked hard in school and got a good job that paid well. They tried to get in touch with me and say they wanted to be friends, but I blocked them.
My life went on.
I now live in the town next to where we grew up. I moved because I got a great job offer, but I liked that I was still close enough to see my parents and other relatives. A friend of ours told me about their wedding about a month ago. I didn’t care about it anymore, so I lived my life.
They reached out to me out of the blue.
I got a message from Ana a week ago saying that they’d like me to be in the wedding party. I told them, “Congratulations.” “No, thank you.” I no longer cared about Josh, and I’m even seeing someone else. But I don’t want to go to the wedding of two people who hurt me.
They wouldn’t give up. Josh also sent me a message from a different number. A few of my friends also tried to get me to go to the wedding. It was a firm “no.” My mom even called to see if I was going. When I told her I wasn’t, she sounded disappointed, but she didn’t keep calling. I just think this is all very strange. Why would you want the girl you cheated on with your best friend to be in your wedding party?
Things are getting worse.
Someone called me the day before the wedding to say they missed me and hoped I could make it to the wedding. I told them I wasn’t going. I got in trouble with her mom, who told me to forget about what happened and be happy for her daughter. She agreed to go to the wedding if I cheated on Ana’s boyfriend. I asked her if she could get Ana to agree to go. I hung up because she didn’t answer.
I get more than 20 to 30 calls and texts a day from their family and friends about the wedding, which is getting out of hand. Do you have any ideas on how to handle this? Why do they want me to attend their wedding? It doesn’t seem right that they are so insistent.
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