Fans noted that Kourtney Kardashian Barker’s lifestyle business, Poosh, was examining the topic on its website, which prompted a flurry of discussion on “autosexuality.” The idea, which revolves around eroticism and one’s own self-image turning one on, was covered in a 2020 Poosh piece that captivated readers, who are now wondering if Kourtney is hinting at something related to her personal experience.
The article begins by asking, “Are you autosexual?” and quickly answers, “Most likely, yes. In fact, most of us are, at least to some extent.” But what does it truly mean to be autosexual?
To clarify, Poosh featured insight from Casey Tanner, founder of QueerSexTherapy, who defined autosexuality as “a trait where one becomes aroused by engaging with their own erotic self.” Tanner explained that people can feel more sexually alive and confident when they view themselves as attractive. According to Tanner, autosexuality doesn’t always manifest the same way for everyone, but it often involves self-appreciation that can enhance self-esteem and even relationships.
According to Tanner, being attracted to oneself in the mirror or dressing up for oneself rather than only for other people can be examples of autosexuality. Some people may also find that this involves imagining or even smelling themselves in a way that arouses desire. Tanner notes that components of autosexuality can be reflected in even everyday self-care practices, such as dancing in front of the mirror or opting to wear lingerie to feel good about oneself. Tanner promises that it’s completely normal and can enhance rather than detract from one’s sex life. Many people might not be aware that such behaviors, particularly when performed without a partner, belong under this category.
Interestingly, the article also touches on the stigma around autosexuality, noting that many are hesitant to embrace it for fear of appearing self-absorbed or overly focused on personal appearance. However, Tanner asserts that embracing autosexuality could actually strengthen a person’s relationship with themselves and their partner by fostering self-confidence and comfort in their own skin.
Kourtney herself, who married blink-182’s Travis Barker last year, has been known for pushing boundaries and embracing her own unique sense of style. In fact, the celebrity couple faced criticism last month for a Halloween decoration that some felt was too provocative for a family setting. The display featured skeletons in suggestive positions, sparking mixed reactions online. One person commented, “That skeleton position? Really?” while another remarked, “You have children, and you think this is appropriate? Tacky.”
The pair, who welcomed their son Rocky earlier this year, are known for showing PDA and unapologetically living their lives on their own terms. Whether Kourtney intended for the Poosh article to share personal reflections or simply to educate fans on the concept, one thing is certain: the Kardashian-Barker lifestyle continues to keep fans engaged and talking.