Everyone has secrets, but they rarely remain hidden. Truth eventually emerges, often in family. Parents sometimes have to give up their children for adoption due to circumstances or mistakes. But this story is different. This husband felt betrayed after learning about his wife’s adopted daughter.
“A few years ago, my wife and I received a letter from Laurel, claiming to be her daughter, wanting to meet. I expected this since she told me she had given up a child for adoption as a child.
I was surprised to learn there was no adoption. She left the baby with the father and fled.”
“The worst part is that Laurel wrote my wife for help at 12. She wrote her the nastiest reply (I’ve read it) blaming her for her problems and threatening her to never contact her again and “ruining her family.”
I was stunned. She lied the whole time, had contact, and left her again while we were married. Everything has been an emotional dumpster fire, but that’s another issue.”
“We’ve been communicating and building a relationship for years. So much therapy. So far, we’ve kept this from our kids. After a few years, everyone wants to meet.
My wife and Laurel have reached a “agreement” to tell the kids and family that she is a family friend. Not at all. I’m tired of lying. While I don’t expect their names to change, I’m no longer lying. As a rule, I don’t lie to my kids, but lying about family is dangerous.
I want them to meet if we’re honest. I’m sharing it with my wife, Laurel, and parents—the only outsiders. They advise me to comply for Laurel, not my wife. I get why she wants that, but I don’t care anymore. The kids must know.”
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