Most of the time, we think we know our partner better than anyone else. But sometimes, one new thing can completely destroy that belief and make us question everything about our relationship. People in the stories we’re sharing today found out shocking and unsettling things about their partners that made them feel like they had been living with a stranger the whole time.

“My wife and I had been married for two years.” She never worked, but she always had her own money, which I never asked about. A man came to the door one day and said he had been looking for my wife for three months. He told her she owed him $10,000, which showed she had been borrowing money in secret and charging interest on loans she gave to other people. When I asked her about it, she told me it was a secret side business. Not only did the money hurt, but the lie also hurt a lot. Everything I thought I knew about her and the trust I had in her were broken.

I found a letter from a bank that we didn’t even use that confirmed she had opened an account there and moved a lot of our family’s money into it. from docentmark on Reddit

After two years of dating, I learned that the man I was seeing had been using LGBTQ dating apps the whole time we were together. He even called me his “GF who doesn’t know” Finding out that broke my heart completely. From Reddit user theworldisonfire70:

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