Fans noted that Kourtney Kardashian Barker’s lifestyle business, Poosh, was examining the topic on its website, which prompted a flurry of discussion on “autosexuality.” The idea, which revolves around eroticism and one’s own self-image turning one on, was covered in a 2020 Poosh piece that captivated readers, who are now wondering if Kourtney is hinting at something related to her personal experience.
“Are you autosexual?” is the first question posed in the essay. he responds promptly, “Probably, sure. Actually, the majority of us are, at least in part. However, what does being autosexual actually mean?
Autosexuality, according to Casey Tanner, founder of QueerSexTherapy, is “a trait where one becomes aroused by engaging with their own erotic self.” Poosh included this definition to shed light on the topic. Tanner explained that people can feel more sexually alive and confident when they view themselves as attractive. According to Tanner, autosexuality doesn’t always manifest the same way for everyone, but it often involves self-appreciation that can enhance self-esteem and even relationships.
One form of autosexuality, Tanner says, can be as simple as finding yourself attractive in the mirror or dressing up for your own satisfaction, not just for others. For some, this might also include visualizing or even smelling oneself in a way that creates desire. Tanner points out that even regular self-care routines, like choosing to wear lingerie to feel good for oneself or dancing in the mirror, can reflect aspects of autosexuality. Many people may not realize that such acts, especially when done independently of a partner, fall under this umbrella—and Tanner assures that it’s entirely natural and can enrich one’s sex life, rather than diminish it.
Interestingly, the article also touches on the stigma around autosexuality, noting that many are hesitant to embrace it for fear of appearing self-absorbed or overly focused on personal appearance. However, Tanner asserts that embracing autosexuality could actually strengthen a person’s relationship with themselves and their partner by fostering self-confidence and comfort in their own skin.
Kourtney has a reputation for pushing limits and embracing her own distinct sense of style. She married Travis Barker of blink-182 last year. The famous pair really came under fire last month for a Halloween décor that some thought was too suggestive for a family environment. Online responses to the installation, which included skeletons in suggestive poses, were conflicting. “That skeleton position?,” someone said. Really?” and another said, “You have kids and you believe this is acceptable? Tacky.
The couple is well-known for their PDA and unreservedly living their lives as they see fit. They welcomed their son Rocky earlier this year. Whether Kourtney wanted to offer her own thoughts in the Poosh piece or just inform her fans about the idea, one thing is certain: the Kardashian-Barker lifestyle continues to keep fans engaged and talking.
